Is That Male In Your Life A Man Or A Boy ?

Ladies, the truth is that you don’t have to settle for whatever boy comes your way. In fact, you shouldn’t settle; you’re doing yourself a real injustice. If you’re going to be with a man then be with a grown-ass man. Simply put, men are the real deal. More fun. More reliable. And obviously better in bed.
It can be quite an arduous task to tell the difference, but with time, it’s easy to separate the men from the boys. In case you need a little extra help, here goes.
His place looks like a human being lives there.
You won’t mistake it for a zoo and nor will you think the Dandora dumpsite has been copy pasted into his living quarters. He doesn’t necessarily have to have his own place. Nor does it need to be extravagantly furnished, but you should be able to distinguish the floor from the rest of the place.
Grown men take pride in surrounding themselves with an environment that supports an active and healthy lifestyle. If he’s too lazy to keep his place clean then he’s definitely too lazy for the more important things in life. What, with all the “mama wa kufua” around…
He does what he does because it is from within, self driven
Whether motivated by money or his love or passion for something, he does it because he wants to not because he needs to or his parents or someone else is the motivating factor.
Being at the bottom doesn’t make someone less of a man, unless he intends to stay there.
It’s really all about the plan. Grown men have plans to get themselves from point A to point B. More importantly still, they are driven to do so.
He doesn’t complain because he knows complaining doesn’t yield results.
He puts his nose to the grind and produces results. Bitching is for bitches. He’s a grown-ass man. Enough said.
When he has a problem he speaks his mind
You see, grown men don’t just go about agreeing with everything their women say. They have a mind of their own and they’re more than happy to speak their opinions.
However, they do so respectfully and are always open to hearing your thoughts on the matter.
Keeps the positive vibe going, especially about your dreams and goals
It’s the men who tell you that you can’t do something, that you can’t accomplish something, who are poisonous. Grown men don’t like to use the word “can’t,” especially when it comes to the women they love, essentially they’re you number one fan.
When with you, it’s all about you
He’s not concerned with the show on TV, the music on the radio or anything other than getting you undressed. He’s a man, an animal. And he is more than keen to let the animal out to play.
Values and appreciates you for you.
He doesn’t just tell you he loves you – he shows you he loves you. To him, you are a part of his life. You are an extension of him.
He cares about you and knows that words fall short of the emotions he feels for you. He’s not shy to show you he loves you because you are one of the most important aspects of his life.
You have a man or boy?
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