Are Men Intimidated By Strong, Smart and Successful Woman

A woman has two smiles that an angel might envy, the smile that accepts a lover before words are uttered, and the smile that lights on the first-born babe, and assures it of a mother’s love.
There is the modern woman and the modern man then there is the ancient woman and ancient man.
In the ancient times we had a society that looked down upon women and their capabilities. The man was the head and the societal leader of the family as a unit. The woman was tenant at the mercy of a man.
Times have changed that have seen the rise of single and accomplished mothers who head their households.
Just because a woman has it together and doesn’t need financial boost from a man doesn’t mean the woman won’t respect and love the man.
Men don’t want to be threatened and shown that the woman also have a stance. That is what we call the manly ego that never really does hold water. The society at large doesn’t agree or like an accomplished woman because it will only want a woman buried in the kitchen.
The modern woman is strong and successful and it only takes a real man to handle that because the weak will diminish at the single thud of her rolls royce in her parking lot.
Maureen Dowd, the Pulitzer Prize winning columnist for the New York Times, wrote an entire book about this, called “Are Men Necessary?” . One of her main observations is that if an amazing woman like her could be single, there must be something wrong with men.
Maybe the strong successful woman isn’t out to threaten and be superior just unlike the normal yielding woman she doesn’t see the need to. Her intention is not to emasculate the man by making him feel insignificant and second guessed.
How many of you would want their daughters to grow into strong and successful women? I bet most of you all, they will then be strong and successful wives the same women you reject. Why shouldn’t women have the same ego as a man over their earnings?
A strong and successful woman not only scares the man but the society. Its’ time for the society at large to make space for the strong and successful woman.
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